Busy weekend! Drove to State College Friday morning; loaded up U-Haul and drove home Saturday; unloaded at our house late Saturday and into storage pace Sunday. The house is a disaster with boxes and things all over...but so much fun with Joseph. It is going to be a bus summer, and I am exhausted already!
1 Timothy 5 is a great chapter on how to treat people in general. These lessons (remember) are written for timothy, but they are all something we can learn from! Many of these lessons are lost!
Immediately, Paul talks about how to treat and respect elders. Some translations say "do not rebuke an elder". Later, we will hear Paul say sometimes elders need to be rebuked, but not harshly. The point here is to correct them gently and make corrections with compassion. These first few verses (vv 1-2) are all about respect and getting along. How is that taught to our young people? Many times we have commented about respect and the lack of it. If we look at some families- they don't even respect each other!
In the next set of lines (vv 3- 8) are about treatment of widows- women who are truly alone. There was no social assistance programs in early Rome, so it was really up to the kindness of the church and the neighbors to care for people that don't have means. If there is family around- the family should be caring for the woman. This short paragraph goes deep into family respect and care- and respect. Families today are so broken, that they don't learn respect and compassion. How can the church change that? I find V 8 quite interesting- If you don't care for your family- you have turned against God! Look around- how many families do you know that don't care for each other? Where is the love for family gone? Paul seems to put an age limit in his discussion. Any widow over 60 (v 9) regardless of family status should be taken care of by the church. The assumption was that under age 60, she could do somethings to help herself (get a job) or get remarried! What does this statement (over age 60) say to the church about caring for our elders?
Paul says some interesting comments about younger widows...let them remarry if they want. Paul wasn't against remarrying; the comment basically was they are young and they will get pulled away from the church because they want to find a husband! Paul even goes to the extent of saying that they should get married and settle down- otherwise they will turn into busy bodies- and we know from the previous chapters how Paul feels about that! Paul really does feel it is the church's function/job to care for elders (widows) that are truly destitute.
The elders that Paul speaks of (v 17) are the church leaders. It seems like he is talking about merit pay here (v 17)! Paul is in support of the church helping the destitute, and then he goes on to say that those that are the leaders should be given double that amount for the work they do! Suggest that to the church SPR committee! (jk!!) The more useful you are the more valuable you are, the more you should be rewarded.
Paul really has it our for gossip! He comments that you should always have some others present when people want to gossip (v 19). The idea is that there are others there to hear what you heard- so much for confidentiality issues! As clergy, I hear lots of stories about lots of people. It is hard to know truth and reality. One's perception of an event is their reality and I sometimes don't hear the other side. There are times I would like to have two people that tell stories about each other to come together and tell their stories to each other (does that make sense?)! Paul goes on to say that if you need to reprimand- do it in front of the church (v 20)! Partially this is for witnesses to hear what the pastor said; part of this is to make the rest of the church aware of their potential punishment of they are caught doing the same thing! How do you think the people of LM would respond if I rebuked someone in front of the congregation?!
Paul tells Timothy the seriousness of his job and the job of church leaders (v 21) "I Charge you before God and Jesus Christ..." The New Testament places a huge emphasis on equality between people, and Paul carries it through here too (v 21) to show no partiality! Is it that easy? To show no partiality? People need to prove themselves before they should be ordained or let into leadership roles (v 22). Does the church do a good job of that?
Huge fan of Paul's next suggestion to Timothy (v 23)! Water in ancient times wasn't always pure and clean, so there were many intestinal issues and illnesses due to that. The wine would act as an antiseptic. I will try harder to follow Paul's suggestion here!
The final words to Timothy in this chapter are ones that we know well. Sometimes sin and goodness is easy to see; sometimes not so much. But everything will be revealed in its time. How often do we sin thinking we can get away with it? Or do good things without wanting recognition? Sometimes what we see on the outside isn't an accurate reflection of the inside! Listen for God's discerning voice!
Some really good advice from Paul to Timothy in these lines! This may make a great sermon series!
Have a great day today. Remember the freedoms we have because of those who fought for us and let us truly recognize and think about who we are as a people. May we all be blessed today and all days.
Shalom+
Pastor Paul